P.P. Vergerius To Ubertinus of Carrara( discussing the duties of a parent)
this is the duty of seeing that he be trained in sound
learning. For no wealth, no possible security against the future,
can be compared with the gift of an education in grave and liberal
studies
..But we must remember that whilst a man may escape
from the burden of an unlucky name, or from the contempt attaching
to a city of no repute, by changing the one or quitting the other,
he can never remedy the neglect of early education.
For the lives of men of position are passed, as it were,
in public view; and are fairly expected to serve as witness to
personal merit and capacity on part of those who occupy such exceptional
place amongst their fellow men. ..
2. In judging character in youth, we recognize, first of all,
that it is a mark of soundness in a boy's nature that he is spurred
by desire of praise: upon this rests Emulation, which may be defined
as rivalry without malice. Next we notice the quality of willing
and ready obedience, which in itself is full of promise for future
progress, whilst, combined with the love of appropriate, it suggests
the possibility of the highest excellence.
Again, we may
feel confidently about a boy who shows signs of due shame at punishment
or disgrace, or who respects his master in spite of it. The boy,
too, who is naturally of a friendly disposition, forgiving, sociable,
taking all that is said and done in good part, gives good promise
for the future. Perhaps we may add, with Aristotle, that excessive
physical energy rarely goes with keen intellectual tastes
.
.a boy will be of openhanded and generous disposition, just
as he is by virtue of his years of warm and sanguine habit of
body; and such a temper we prefer to parsimoniousness.